Vocabulary

There is an alternative to slogging away working the 9-5 hum drum job. Although we are programmed at an early age to go to school get good grades, find a safe and secure job, and have kids, then you programme them into doing the same one way or the other deliberately or not.

But that's not necessarily what you want for tour kids. look at how you can become a slave to your job 60hour work week, missing out on your kids lives, very few holidays making your boss rich, not getting paid what your worth, working with or for idiots'. Are you ready to transform your life??

There is a better way and it's never too late to become the person you once thought you would be. Don't let all of your limiting beliefs (too old, no time, no money etc) to control your life. Take a stand now; make the changes, only you can do it!

You will need to make changes and dispel those limiting beliefs. When you realise you are in complete control of your own circumstances you can make the steps to create the life of your dreams. Just by telling yourself you want change you are taking the first step to taking control of your life.

A good way to start is to make a comprehensive list of all that you want, ignore any limitations or time restrictions and write all that comes to mind. You could categorise them physical, spiritual, financial, intellectual and community.

Ask yourself what to do I want my life to  like, how do I want to feel, how do I connect with my higher being, how do I want to move about, what daily routine do I want, what to learn & teach ,cars, travel, schools, money to earn, service to provide to others.

If it's hard to think what you want write down what you don't want and turn it into a positive. Eg I don't want a - I want a life of ease. Make a long list, don't judge just write it. Don't' be stuck in negative beliefs. Be Do Have Share Learn Teach.

This is your life not just your day, make it lengthy. Read the list 2-3 times a day. Keep adding and making it, shed your limiting beliefs. More things will come to be achieved in your life. Make it all positive.

When you're reading it often it will place these thoughts into your sub conscious mind which is always running, going like an energetic child, always needing attention or something to do.

Give it the things that you want it to work on or it will wander and go anywhere and do whatever and create things that don't help you.

To do this you will need to take a:

Media ban. Start now. Turn off the TV, no newspapers, turn off the radio remove it in all forms because you know that they emphasise all of the negative things happening around the world.

Power walk without an ipod or music by yourself, preferably in a park or in nature where you are safe and alone. Go for 15 minutes then step in a quiet place where you can focus on your thoughts or your list of wants. Think about your life and how to transform it by visualising it for 15 minutes and then return walking for 15 minutes.

Remove the words 'don't', 'not' and 'no' from your vocabulary. The universe will reward you for phrasing your intentions in a more positive way. If this is difficult to do have someone challenge you each time you slip up by saying what do you want?

That will give you an opportunity to revibe your thoughts and intentions and create a more positive energy to help you achieve your goals.

At regular intervals each day take a moment to do some deep breathing. It only needs to be for 30-60 seconds as this will help clear your head refocus on your tasks and get the results you are looking for.

Be a student of personal development. Get into a routine of reading books or listening to cd's and dvd's on inspirational people, transformational concepts, motivational leaders, learn to meditate and work on being a whole person you desire to be.

Make a real effort to avoid being in negative situations and around negative people, do this for 30days to give yourself the opportunity to rid yourself of any negative attitudes that may keep dragging you back to old habits of complaining and resentment.

This can be very difficult if people you are close to tend to be negative but if you work at it  is possible to avoid conversations or discussion that have a negative angle.

Start a bucket list of all that you want to do in your ideal life before you get to old and pass on.

These will help you become the new you.

Also ask yourself would you do your job if you didn't get paid for it? If you answer yes then good on you! You are one of the very few who can say they truly love their job.

If you said no- no way would I do this and not get paid then I think you know you are going down the wrong path and you need to make serious changes to find your passion because when you love what you do, life is so much more rewarding and you realise its not work its fun and enjoyable to help others and you don't actually work at all.

So find your passion and chase that dream and make it come true!